Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Fears and resolutions!!


“The only way to conquer your fears is to face them”
Being a typical cancerian I have this strange fascination with sea ( one day I will blog on the stories related to my fascination with the word sea) and always wanted to venture in the sea without any fear like a free bird (or a fish) …..but the only tiny- miny problem was that I have this huge fear of depths and heights  …….so making up my mind to learn swimming was a big challenge. So for this year I have decided on to two resolutions (which do seem achievable)
One , Thou shall learn to swim and fall free in the depths of sea
Two , Thou shall learn to drive to take my beat baby for a ride J
Finally… with heaps and heaps of moral support from hubby dearest I decided to take the plunge (quite literally).  And started my swimming lessons…..let me admit I was quite thrilled and overjoyed while being in water. As my classes are over weekend hence it will be quite a challenge to remain regular (I have already missed two classes) and considering I have loads of travel in upcoming weekends lined up..i am sure to miss quite some classes.  …hopefully at the end of it I shall be able to make it to my dream of floating freely
In next few days me and hubby shall complete 5 years of our married life…………..and it feels like yesterday when celebrated our first anniversary  so 5 years of  living it up with his super crazy moody wifey calls for conferring hubby with a gold medal J
They say that after some years of marriage husband and wife change their personalities……I have seen that in case of my parents…when me and didu were kids ma use to be such an easy parent…someone without any baggage of worries  other hand papa was complete opposite Once me and didu came late from school by almost 2-3 hrs as there was some issue with our bus but mom was not perturbed and all parents were quite surprised while now she doesn’t need any reason to get worried….as she is worrying all the time!!!
Some samples of your conversions
Mom -: Rinku why are your hands cold..beta tu tabiyaat ka dhyaan nahi rakti
Mom-: Rinku why are your hands warm……tu tabiyaat ka dhyanaan nahi rakhti
If you call her in morning she will be worried…..ke subha subha kyu phone aaya….aare ma aapko miss kar rahi thi…beta subha subha phone maat kia kar tension hoti hai

In case of me and hubby………. we are complete opposites of each other ……..infact I joke that there is nothing common between me and him ….no trait …no hobby….even our eating habits are very different ……..so it will be very interesting see what happens when we come to the interchanging part !!
Talking about family ….we have this biiiiiiig family get-together planned (in a pretext of attending a wedding) where I shall be meeting all my family and I am pretty excited about it as i also shall be visiting the city of my childhood after 25 years!!!!
It’s the city which I associate my childhood wit…… memories of which still linger down my memory lane….and I always wanted to go there with hubby during this time of year when everything is so bright colorful weather is at its best !!
So hopefully we shall have a good time and enjoy !!
That reminds me hubby and my brother-in-law have ‘planned’ this so called trip to goa and I am very ‘excited’ (all sarcasm intended) to see how it goes as usually both of them have a habit of planning in the air!

So lets see who the weekend unfolds!!!